“You’re so pretty for a dark skinned girl!”
“Stop calling yourself fat, because you’re not - you’re beautiful!”
“You have incredible boobs for an Asian girl!”
“You can’t even tell that you’re trans*, you’re so gorgeous!”
Thanks for trying to be nice, people, but this isn’t the way to do it.
People aren’t attractive in spite of these qualities…nor is it helpful to imply that they’re beautiful because they are so different from the normal stereotypes we associate with POC/trans* people/fat people. All that does is reinforce beliefs that the default state for dark skin, fatness, or being trans* is somehow physically and noticeably inferior.
In short: Good effort, and you might really mean well - but we’d rather you not have said anything at all.